FREE PLAY CHECKLIST
Your play checklist
Go through 120+ activities and mark what you love, what you're curious about, and what's off the table. Rate giving and receiving separately. Nothing is stored on our servers — your chart lives entirely in the link.
Why this one is different
Most charts have no notion of direction. Here you can tag I-give and I-receive on any activity, so switches and anyone who plays both sides don't lose half the picture.
Mark experience separately from preference, so a partner can tell the difference between 'never tried' and 'not for me'.
Your answers plot onto a mental/physical and soft/hard map, so the shape of your taste is visible at a glance.
For adults. This chart is a communication tool, not a contract. Everything in BDSM should be safe, sane and consensual, and limits can change at any time.
XLX is a dating & community app built around BDSM roles and interests.
